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I know there is bias and prejudice everywhere irrespective of race, skin colour, creed, religion, sexual preference, etc, and I've seen it first hand in a number of scenarios, and apart from a bizarre comment in a chat forum many years ago that as a "whitey" I was responsible for burning some ethnic minority back in the 1300s, and some loon accusing me of being a racist while I was sat having a coffee with my Jamaican friend, I'd never really experienced what I would call "racism" towards myself.

Move the clock forward 5 years, and it started me thinking when a Bangladeshi colleague who sat on our RACE and EDI panel, completely unprompted and out of the blue said to me one day that he'd realised that off all the groups in our organisation that suffered the most prejudice and disadvantage were "straight, white, middle aged men."

In another role within the same organisation, I was told by my new, and interim boss "As a white male you're going to struggle. As a female and a Muslim I can get away with more than you can."

I really struggled to understand what I was supposed to do with that.

She would comment that when she looked at her senior management team, of which I was one, all she could see was a "sea of white, male faces" (all three of us... more of a puddle than a sea, but I digress).

She didn't like the way I worked. As someone diagnosed ASD I can be blunt and painfully honest. I do ask challenging questions and I expect competent answers. If I don't get them, I'm like a dog with a bone. She was manipulative, deceitful and held grudges, and in my professional opinion, lacked any experience or knowledge of project management (I hesitate to say incompetent as I have to assume she was competent in her regular role).

She even tried to use my daughter's autism in an occupational health assessment to "prove" I was incapable of doing my job (even though I'd effectively been head hunted for the role).

Five months later she had me dismissed for "gross misconduct" based on fabricated stories with not a shred of evidence, but her boss and the organisation as a whole, were terrified of tackling the underlying issue and my concerns, raised repeatedly over many months, went unaddressed and unheeded.

She since moved on, promoted no less, although I hear she lasted only 6 months in that role.

Eventually I was reinstated on appeal, although the nightmare still rumbles on. I was shut down at my back to work interview when told I was suspended pending another investigation, (for something which happened after they sacked me) which has conveniently prevented me from being able to reopen my existing case and clear my name.

If I was a paranoid conspiracy theorist, I might even think this was to prevent my original concerns and how they were dealt with, or rather weren't, rom being reexamined, as it would certainly become uncomfortable for some extremely senior people in the organisation (one of whom is an EDI champion).

So yes racism is a thing, but from personal experience all I can say is that now I very much believe ant-white racism to be reality... and I'm not sure what to do with that.

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Graeme's avatar

Excellent explanation and analysis.

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